Experience in Life

Unfortunately, we only gain complete experience of life at the end of our lives. No time to use the experience! But if we were to be given a second  chance of another life on Earth, many people will obviously choose paths different from those in their previous lives.

Changing Dreams

As a little body growing up in a rural setting in the 80s,  each time I saw  an airplane fly across the sky I dreamt to one day fly to the moon or better still to heaven. If  I had to make one wish to God , then it was to make me "fly like a bird" or "swim like a fish". Today my dreams have changed. How I wish there were other safer alternatives than flying in a plane! The thought of boarding an airplane even triggers electric shock waves down my spine. My eagerness of getting into a plane has been transformed into an anxiety of aerophobia wishing to quickly land when I am obliged to be in one. Now I fear travelling and the hodophobia increases with time. If I choose to go by land the automobile might crash breaking my bones; if I use the the ship, it may make a head on collision with an iceberg and  sink rendering my body food for water creatures. If I go on foot my feet will hurt. My childhood dreams of flying in the sky or sailing in the sea are gradually fading. I am acquainting myself to my new life-style of travel aversiveness. May be until there are newer and safer travelling alternatives.
Our dreams change as life changes!

Dogs, Bones and Meat

Dogs do not actually prefer bones to meat; it is just that no one ever gives them meat.(African Proverb)

Mandela Verbally Paralyses a Journalist

Jamais-vu: Mandela verbally paralyses Mr Koppel  transiently transforming  him globally aphasic,  mute and dysphonic  and finally rendering him bemused.
What an epitome of African Intelligence and oratorship! He is a real African Hero. He is gone but his soul goes marching on.

None

Listen keenly, look deeply and think critically and you will understand life.

Comparison

We are created unique with special attributes. By comparing oneself to others is an insult to the creator of life and auto-injustice!

Injustice and Unfairness

If you expect the world to be fair with you because you're fair, is like asking a lion not to eat you because you don't eat lions. It has taken me three decades to understand what the world is all about….a place of injustice and unfairness. 
 I have come to reconcile with the fact that Sometimes you lose, sometimes you win.
But the most important is to take the lesson to the future

COLLATERAL THINKING

Collateral thinking is the ability to think laterally while concomitantly respecting traditional thinking and having regard for conventional wisdom. Most of the world’s population has been brought up to think conventionally. A few are lateral thinkers and a little less are collateral thinkers.I am a proponent of collateral thinking!.

Lateral thinking is a prerequisite to innovation and a condition sine qua non to invention but usually encounters fierce impedance at the start/ during the course, almost so that most of the times, the ideas of lateral thinkers hardly ever go beyond the neurons  that conceived them to  come to light. This is because as one of my teachers used to tell me:

Deviate from tradition, Say something new…. and no one will like to listen to you! Try to convince anyone to accept and you will just be hated….even if everyone knows deep in the sub-consciously mind that you are right! This is human nature! Don’t or never force anyone to abide to your idea, convince him /her to look at his/her own ideas from a different angle—your angle of vision…this is collateral thinking!

Lateral thinkers are idea developers endowed with the ability not only to see at a distance but also to see rightly whereas collateral thinking is the mindset needed to take the idea everywhere.Collateral thinkers  are clairvoyant visionaries ; they are fighters not affected by controversy and  with a positive mindset commendable to be trusted. They believe adversity happens for them not to them and explore and exploit every situation they find themselves positively. They have the ability to change negativity into positivity.

Conventional thinkers simply respect and follow the rules!

Collateral thinking is thus a subtle way of incorporating and blending “lateral thinking-” into “traditional ways (the usual)” without causing friction between schools of thought. Everyone stays within his comfort zone, considers his/her idea as contributive but sub-consciously accepting the new way! Esene 06-06-2014

To which group do you belong? Traditional, Collateral or Lateral?

The Power of Negative Thoughts

The reality of life is that everything we see when we look and hear when we listen represents just the tip of the iceberg of a bigger picture. This affects our thoughts and the way we think greatly affects our body, mind and soul. If our thoughts can affect even the microscopic texture of our tears (see photos), then imagine what that can do to our bodies as a whole, not to talk of our souls. Furthermore, our thoughts affect our beliefs about ourselves and about others. Although the science of thoughts leaves much to be unraveled, the baseline is “our thoughts greatly impact on all the components of our lives”. Positive thoughts about ourselves, about others and about our environment produce an overall positive effect on our lives, so as do negative thoughts. Negativity is self destructive, propagates exponentially faster than positivity and usually leaves irreparable physical and spiritual sores and indelible scars. Like begets like. Positive thoughts beget a positive life.

. 

Disproportionate Effort and Reward

During my two years of obligatory medical service  in Ndop, Cameroon,  I saw men, women and children toiling and moiling under the hot blazing sun and cold chilly nights beneath the ngoketunjia hills yielding a harvest which I may term "infra" optimal. I used to wonder and ponder if the negative effects of rice cultivation in the Ndop plain didn’t surpass the benefits (“exaggerated!”).

I saw children dying from anaemia secondary to malaria - the stagnant waters (of Bambalang) being the niche for the transmitting vector the anopheles.This gave Ndop the reputation of being one of the regions of the country with the highest prevalence of malaria!

I received teens with hernias , young ladies with backaches from recurrent muscular stress and strain while working in the rice farms.

Ironically, most of these farmers never had enough funds to pay their medical bills nor educate their children because of the inefficient methods used in rice cultivation. My impressions were much effort was put in without a commensurate output! Rice cultivation was mostly for subsistence- much man power used, much time invested, much natural resources (land etc) used for meager output! But whose fault?